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Wednesday 26 April 2017

Muslim Woman and Her Daughter-in-Law / Establishing Islamic Home


The IDEAL MUSLIMAH
The True Islamic Personality of the Muslim Woman 
as Defined in the Qur'an and Sunnah
By  Dr. Muhammad 'Ali Al-Hashimi  
Translated by Nasiruddin Al-Khattab and Revised by Ibrahim
M. Kunna and Abu Aya Sulaiman Abdus-Sabur  


Copyright and published by the International Islamic Publishing House (IIPH), Riyadh, Saudi Arabia in 1999.  



The Ideal Muslimah: the true Islamic personality of the Muslim woman as defined in the Qur'an and Sunnah

The Ideal Muslimah  is proud of the great position that Islam has given her among humanity. She performs her duties knowing that her role is clearly defined and that her rights are still, even today, greater than any other ideology has provided. She is a woman of moral excellence, true to her nature, not confused by alien and morally bankrupt ideas. She preserves her self-respect and dignity through her piety in obedience to Allah (The One & Only God)) and His Messenger (Sall'Allahu alaihi wa sallam). She is the role model that every true believer hopes to emulate.


Chapter 6: The Muslim Woman and Her Sons and Daughters-in-Law


A- Her daughter-in-law and Her attitude towards her daughter-in-law


She respects her and treats her well

The good Muslim mother-in-law respects her daughter-in-law and treats her well; she makes her feel that she is loved and appreciated; she listens to her thoughts and opinions, approving and encouraging those that are good, and gently correcting those that are mistaken. In all of this, the mother-in-law's aim is to be fair and just, so she judges her daughter-in-law exactly as she would judge her daughter if she were in her place giving her opinion to her mother, in accordance with the words of the Qur'an:

"O you who believe! Fear Allah, and [always] say a word directed to the Right." (Holy Qur'an 33:70)


She does not omit to express the joy that she feels from time to time, when she sees that her son is happy with his wife, and this adds to the best feelings that her son and daughter-in-law feel. Similarly, she does not forget to include her daughter-in-law on various occasions, just as she thinks of her daughters, so she lets her accompany them, and makes her feel that she is one of them, and that she is a beloved member of the family since she is married to her beloved son.

In this way the mother-in-law becomes dear to her daughter-in-law, because she shows that her daughter-in-law is dear to her. This is in direct contrast to the practice in those backward, jahili (ignorant) societies that have deviated from the guidance of Allah (The One & Only God), where hatred and despicable plots between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law are the norm, to such an extent that this enmity has become a traditional, inevitable phenomenon, about which there are many folk sayings and popular songs. None of this could have happened if both mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law had really respected one another's rights as outlined by Islam, and had stayed within the limits prescribed by Allah (The One & Only God). This is why the traditional enmity between the mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law disappeared in those societies that truly embraced Islam and adhered to its teachings and values.


She gives advice but does not interfere in their private life

From the moment her daughter-in-law is brought as a bride to her son, the wise Muslim woman remembers that her daughter-in-law has the right to live her married life in all aspects - so long as it remains within the limits of Islamic teaching - and that no-one has the right to interfere in the private life of the spouses except in cases where it is essential to do so, as every Muslim is required to give sincere advice in accordance with the Prophet's words: "Religion is sincere advice (nasihah) ..." 2


The Muslim mother-in-law's standard in her behavior towards her daughter-in-law is her behavior towards her own daughter: just as she wants her daughter to have a happy, successful and independent marriage, undisturbed by any interference in her private life, so she wishes the same for her daughter-in-law, with no exceptions.


2. Sahih Muslim, 2/37, Kitab al-iman, bab bayan an al-din al-nasihah.  



Sunday 29 January 2017


Hereafter - Life after death



How can you prove the existence of hereafter, i.e. life after death?


1.     Belief in the hereafter is not based on blind faith?

Many people wonder as to how a person with a scientific and logical temperament, can lend any credence to the belief of life after death.

People assume that anyone believing in the hereafter is doing so on the basis of blind belief.
My belief in the hereafter is based on a logical argument.


2.     Hereafter: a logical belief

There are more than a thousand verses in the Glorious Qur’an, containing scientific facts (refer my book “Qur’an and Modern Science-Compatible or Incompatible?”).

Many facts mentioned in the Qur’an have been discovered in the last few centuries. But science has not advanced to a level where it can confirm every statement of the Qur’an.
Suppose 80% of all that is mentioned in the Qur’an has been proved 100% correct.

About the remaining 20%, science makes no categorical statement, since it has not advanced to a level, where it can either prove or disprove these statements.

With the limited knowledge that we have, we cannot say for sure whether even a single percentage or a single verse of the Qur’an from this 20% portion is wrong.

Thus when 80% of the Qur’an is 100% correct and the remaining 20% is not disproved, logic says that even the 20% portion is correct.

The existence of the hereafter, which is mentioned in the Qur’an, falls in the 20% ambiguous portion which my logic says is correct.



3.     Concept of peace and human values is useless without the concept of hereafter

Is robbing a good or an evil act? A normal balanced person would say it is evil.
How would a person who does not believe in the hereafter convince a powerful and influential criminal that robbing is evil?

Suppose I am the most powerful and influential criminal in the world. At the same time I am an Intelligent and a logical person. I say that robbing is good because it helps me lead a luxurious life.

Thus robbing is good for me.

If anybody can put forward a single logical argument as to why it is evil for me, I will stop immediately.


People usually put forward the following arguments:

a.      The person who is robbed will face difficulties
Some may say that the person who is robbed will face difficulties. I certainly agree that it is bad for the person who is robbed. But it is good for me. If I rob a thousand dollars, I can enjoy a good meal at a 5 star restaurant.

b.     Someone may rob you
Some people argue that someday I may be robbed. No one can rob me because I am a very powerful criminal and I have hundreds of bodyguards.

I can rob anybody but nobody can rob me. Robbing may be a risky profession for a common man but not for an influential person like me.

c.      The police may arrest you
Some may say, if you rob, you can be arrested by the police. The police cannot arrest me because I have the police on my payroll. I have the ministers on my payroll.

I agree that if a common man robs, he will be arrested and it will be bad for him, but I am an extraordinarily influential and powerful criminal.


Give me one logical reason why it is bad for me and I will stop robbing.


d.     It’s easy money
Some may say, “it’s easy money”, and not hard-earned money. I agree completely that it is easy money, and that is one of the main reasons why I rob.

If a person has the option of earning money the easy as well as the hard way, any logical person would choose the easy way.

e.     It is against humanity
Some may say it is against humanity and that a person should care for other human beings. I counter argue by asking as to who wrote this law called ‘humanity’ and why should I follow it?

This law may be good for the emotional and sentimental people but I am a logical person and I see no benefit in caring for other human beings.

f.       It is a selfish act
Some may say that robbing is being selfish. It is true that robbing is a selfish act; but then why should I not be selfish? It helps me enjoy life.





1.       No logical reason for robbing being an evil act

Hence all arguments that attempt to prove that robbing is an evil act are futile.

These arguments may satisfy a common man but not a powerful and influential criminal like me.

None of the arguments can be defended on the strength of reason and logic. It is no surprise that there are so many criminals in this world.

Similarly raping, cheating etc. can be justified as good for a person like me and there is no logical argument that can convince me that these things are bad.



2.       A Muslim can convince a powerful and influential criminal

Now let us switch sides. Suppose you are the most powerful and influential criminal in the world, who has the police and the ministers on his payroll. You have army of thugs to protect you.
I am a Muslim who will convince you that robbing, raping, cheating, etc. are evil acts.

Even if I put forth the same arguments to prove that robbing is evil the criminal will respond the same way as he did earlier.

I agree that the criminal is being logical and all his arguments are true
only when he is the most powerful and influential criminal.



3.       Every human being wants justice

Each and every human being desires justice. Even if he does not want justice for others he wants justice for himself. Some people are intoxicated by power and influence and inflict pain and suffering on others.

The same people, however, would surely object if some injustice was done to them. The reason such people become insensitive to the suffering of others is that they worship power and influence.

Power and influence, they feel, not only allows them to inflict injustice on others but also prevents others from doing likewise to them.



4.       God is most Powerful and Just

As a Muslim I would convince the criminal about the existence of Almighty God (refer to answer proving the existence of God). This God is more powerful than you and at the same time is also just. The Glorious Qur’an says:

“Allah is never unjust in the least degree”
[Al-Qur’an 4:40]



5.       Why does God not punish me?

The criminal, being a logical and scientific person, agrees that God exists, after being presented with scientific facts from the Qur’an. He may argue as to why God, if He is Powerful and Just, does not punish him.



6.       The people who do injustice should be punished

Every person who has suffered injustice, irrespective of financial or social status, almost certainly wants the perpetrator of injustice to be punished.

Every normal person would like the robber or the rapist to be taught a lesson. Though a large number of criminals are punished, many even go scot-free.

They lead a pleasant, luxurious life, and even enjoy a peaceful existence.
If injustice is done to a powerful and influential person, by someone more powerful and more influential than he, even such a person would want that person perpetrators of injustice to be punished.



7.       This life is a test for the hereafter

This life is a test for the hereafter. The Glorious Qur’an says:

“He who created Death and life that He may try which of you is best in deed; and He is the Exalted in Might, Oft-Forgiving”
[Al-Qur’an 67:2]



8.       Final justice on Day of Judgment

The Glorious Qur’an says:

Every soul shall have a taste of death: and only on the Day of Judgment shall you be paid your full recompense. Only he who is saved far from the Fire and admitted to the Garden will have attained the object (of life): for the life of this world is but goods and chattels of deception.”
[Al-Qur’an 3:185]

Final justice will be meted out on the Day of Judgment. After a person dies, he will be resurrected on the Day of Judgment along with the rest of mankind.

It is possible that a person receives part of his punishment in this world.
The final reward and punishment will only be in the hereafter.

God Almighty may not punish a robber or a rapist in this world but he will surely be held
accountable on the Day of Judgment and will be punished in the hereafter i.e. life after death.





9.       What punishment can the human law give Hitler?

Hitler incinerated six million Jews during his reign of terror. Even if the police had arrested him,
what punishment can the human law give Hitler for justice to prevail?

The most they can do is to send Hitler to the gas chamber. But that will only be punishment for the killing of one Jew.

What about the remaining five million, nine hundred and ninety nine thousand, nine hundred and ninety-nine Jews?



10.   Allah (The One & Only God) can burn Hitler more than six million times in hellfire

Allah (The One & Only God) says in the Glorious Qur’an:

“Those who reject Our signs, We shall soon cast into the Fire; as often as their skins are roasted through, We shall change them for fresh skins, that they may taste the penalty: for Allah is Exalted in Power, Wise”
[Al-Qur’an 4:56]

If Allah (The One & Only God) wishes he can incinerate Hitler six million times in the hereafter in the hellfire.



11.   No concept of human values or good and bad without concept of hereafter
It is clear that without convincing a person about the hereafter, i.e. life after death, the concept of human values and the good or evil nature of acts is impossible to prove to any person who is doing injustice, especially when he is influential and powerful.





P.S.:
From "Answers to non-Muslims, Common questions about Islam" Authored by Dr.Zakir Abdul-Karim Naik.

3.       Anyone ... and I mean anyone (Muslim or not Muslim) who needs my help or wants to directly communicate with me about any matter in Islam … please don't hesitate to contact me on my personal e-mail mai4islam@yahoo.com

Monday 11 May 2015

Trials

 

 

 

Trials

 

 


All praise is due to Allah (The One & Only God), may peace and blessings be upon the Messenger, his household and companions.
Fear Allah as he should be feared, for fear of Allah (The One God) brings more blessings and prevents afflictions.


Allah has foreordained the fate of all creatures, written down their impacts and deeds, portioned out between them their livelihood and wealth and created death and life that He may test them which of them is best in deed. Indeed, belief in Allah's decree and preordainment is one of the pillars of faith. Nothing happens in this universe except by His will.
This life is full of misfortune and sorrow. It is destined to be a place of hardships and trouble. Trials and tribulations are as inevitable in this life as cold and heat. Allah (The One God) says ,

"And certainly We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to those who are patient."

Pre-destination is a test by which the truthful ones are distinguished from untruthful ones. Allah (The One God) says,


"Do people think that they will be left alone because they say, 'We believe,' and will not be tested." (Holy Quran 29: 2)


 

The human soul does not become pure except through trials, and it is during tribulations that real men are known. Ibn Jawzee said,


"Whoever wants to have everlasting peace and well-being with no affliction does not understand the meaning of Allah's (The One God's) commandments, nor does he perceive the meaning of submission to Allah (The One & Only God). Every soul (either believing or disbelieving) shall inevitably taste suffering in this world, for this life is based on hardships. Man lives between comfort and suffering.”

Prophet Adam, for instance, had the angels prostrated before him and yet was soon after expelled from paradise. A believer is afflicted with trials in order to refine him, not to punish him. He is tested in ease as well as in hardship. Allah (The One God) says,


"And We tried them with good (blessings) and evil (calamities) in order that they might turn (to Allah's obedience)." (Holy Quran Al-A'raaf 7: 168).


 

Something undesireable may sometimes have a pleasant result, while something seemingly desirable may turn out to have an unpleasant and abominable result. Do not therefore feel that harmful things cannot come to you through hardship. Allah (The One God) says,


"…And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows, and you do not know." (Holy Quran Al-Baqarah 2: 216).


 

Prepare yourself mentally for afflictions before they occur so as to make their occurrence light on you. Do not be worried because of tribulations, for they have their limits, and watch what you utter during your hard times for many a word has ruined its utterer. A resolute Muslim stands firm during hardships, his heart does not change and he does not complain. Console yourself whenever afflicted with a promise of reward from Allah (The One God). Wise people show endurance whenever they are stricken with misfortune so as not to add to their misfortune the malicious joy of their enemies, for whenever your enemies know of your misfortune they are overjoyed.


Endeavour to keep your misfortunes and pains to yourself, for concealment of afflictions and pains are of the qualities of noble people. Be patient over afflictions, they will soon be removed from you. Those who perished only suffered that because of their impatience while the patient ones are being recompensed with good rewards. Allah (The One God) says,


"And those who are patient, we will certainly pay them a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do." (Holy Quran Al-Anaam 16:96).


 

The reward of the patient ones will be doubled for their patience and Allah (The One God) will be with them, remove their afflictions and make them victorious.
O afflicted one! Your Lord does not deny you what you want except what is better than that, He does not test you but for your well-being and He does not subject you to tribulations but to purify you. He tries His slaves with pleasure as he blesses them with calamity. Do not therefore waste your time thinking over what has already been guaranteed for you. As long as one is still alive his provision will no doubt come to him. Allah (The One & Only God) says,


"And no (moving) living creature is there on earth but its provision is due from Allah." (Holy Quran Hood 11:6).


 

Further, if Allah – out of His wisdom – closes a door against you, He opens out of His mercy a door better for you than the closed one. It is by afflictions that righteous and understanding people are increased in rank and reward. Sa'ad bin Abee Waqqaas said: I said, "O Messenger of Allah, who are the most afflicted of all people? He replied, "The Prophets, then the righteous people, then those who are nearest to them in perfection and those who are nearest to them. Man is tested according to his religiosity; if he is strong religiously, his test is increased and if he is weak in religion, his test is reduced And a believer will be tested until he walks on the earth sinless [i.e. his sins have been erased by series of afflictions that he endured.]" (Al-Bukhari)

 

 

Prophet Aadam laboured along difficult paths beset with affliction; Prophet Ibraheem was thrown into a blazing fire; Ismael was laid down for slaughter; Yoonus was swallowed by a whale; Prophet Aayoob suffered from a severe illness; Yoosuf was sold for a pittance, thrown into a well and wrongfully jailed and Holy Prophet Muhammed suffered different kinds of injuries. You also are in path of calamities moving, for the life does not give pleasure only to anyone. The Holy Prophet said,


"If Allah wants to do good to somebody, He afflicts him with trials." (Al-Bukharee).

 

 

Some people of knowledge said,


"Whoever Allah creates for paradise will be having trials and undesirable things."

 

 

 

 

 

Real trial, is the trial in one's religion and whatever trial besides that is regarded as well being, for it raises one in the rank and erases one's sins. Also all comforts that do not bring one closer to Allah (The One God) is a tribulation. Do not therefore grieve over what you miss in worldly materials, for worldly pleasure begets pain and disobedience. Aboo Dardaa said,


"Of the insignificance of this world to Allah is that He is not disobeyed except in it, while what is with Him cannot be obtained except by abstaining from it. Engage yourself in what will benefit you more. Keep away from what is in people's hands you will be the wealthiest of them; do not lose hope in Allah's mercy lest you are disgraced; always remember Allah's favour on you and drive away your distress by being pleased with Allah's decree, for however long the night may be, it will be followed by the dawn. Supplicate to Allah. He will give you relief and if you are patient Allah will provide a way out for you. Ponder over the story of Prophet Yaqoob who lost a son for a long period and yet did not lose hope of relief from the Almighty One, but rather said, "Maybe Allah will bring them all (back) to me."

 

 

It is only Allah (The One & Only God) who deserves all praise and is capable of attending to all complaints. It is only Him you must beseech to remove your misfortunes. Pray to Him during the night with submission and humbleness and request Him to make your affairs easy for you. He says,


"Is it not He who responds to the distressed one when he calls Him (better than your gods.)" (Holy Quran 27: 62)


 

Put your trust in the Omnipotent Lord and take refuge with Him with a humble heart, He will open the doors of His mercy for you. Fudayl ben 'Iyaadh said,


"If you lose hope in all people and you do not ask anything from them, your Lord will give you all that you want."

Whoever leaves his affairs to the hands of Allah (The One God) will achieve what he aspires: Always recite the prayer of Prophet Yoonus:

لا إله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين

"None has the right to worshipped except You (O Allah) Glorifed (and exalted) are You (above all that they associate with You) Truly I have been of the wrong doers."

 

 


The 'Ulamaa said,

"No one In distress recites this prayer except that Allah gives him relief from his distress."

 

Ibn al-Qayyim said, "It has been tested that whoever says:

إني مسني الضر و أنت أرحم الراحمين

"Verily distress has seized me and You are the most merciful of all those who show mercy!" Seven times Allah relieves him of his distress! Put then yourself under the protection of Allah (The One & Only God), depend upon Him, submit your affairs to Him and ask Him for relief. Try to supplicate in the most appropriate periods like during prostration and the last hour of the night.

 

Do not feel uneasy if your supplications have not yet been answered, and do not lose hope of Allah's mercy even though the period of your affliction may seem long, for relief is near, and continue to pray to Allah (The One God). Also know that when Allah (The One God) afflicts you no one except Him is capable of removing that affliction for He does whatever He wills.
If your provision seems delayed, do a lot of istighfar (repentance), for misdeeds necessitate punishment; and if it does not seem that your supplications are having any impact, then examine yourself, for it may be that you have not been sincere in your repentance. Endeavour also, to give charity to the needy, for charity prevents and removes affliction. However, if your affliction is removed, give a lot of thanks and praise to your Lord and know that a false sense of safety is a big trial. Allah (The One God) says,


"Say: Nothing shall ever happen to us except what Allah has ordained for us. He is our Lord and Protector, and in Allah let the believers put their trust." (Holy Quran At-Taubah 9: 51).

 

 


No condition is permanent. Fortunate is he who is always God-conscious. Fear Allah (The One & Only God) in any condition you may find yourself. You can do nothing to prevent what has been destined to happen as you do nothing to attain what has not been pre-ordained. The ability to choose and control is with Allah (The One God) alone and His choice for His slave is better for him than his choice for himself. Dawood bin Sulaymaan said,


"Three things indicate the piety of a believer; his trust in Allah in what he has not attained; his satisfaction with whatever he has attained and his patience over what he has missed."

 

A wise man was asked,

"What is wealth?" He replied, "Fewness of one's mundane desires and one's contentment with what suffices him."

 

Shurayh said,

"A slave will not be afflicted by a trial except that he finds three blessings therein, (1) that the trial has nothing to do with his religion, (2) that the trial was not bigger than it is, and (3) that Allah (The One God) gives him patience to bear it."

 

Saturday 18 April 2015

Valuing Life

 

 

 

 

Valuing Life


By: Sadullah Khan

 

 

 


Holy Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said,
"Value five things before five;
Value youth before old age,
Health before sickness,
Free time before being occupied,
Wealth before poverty,
and
Life before death."
(Tirmidhi)

 

 

 

Life is an amaanah, a trust and a test of deeds

 

* Allah (The One & Only God) has granted us death and life in order to test us through our deeds (Holy Quran 67:2)
      and remember
      that the test of life may incorporate fear, hunger, loss of property, loss of life and loss in the fruits of labor;
      all of which can be borne by those who patiently persevere; acknowledging that we are from Allah and unto Him is our return. (Holy Quran 2:155)

 

 

 

 

Death is Inevitable

 

* Each living thing must eventually die (Holy Qur'an 3:185)
     

There is no avoidance of birth or death except to utilize the interval effectively. Our existence in this world seems like a brief crack of light between two eternities of darkness. Death is certain and wherever you are death will reach you
      But as certain as we are about the occurrence of death, so uncertain are we about its timing and we are instructed to act as if every act could be our last

 

 

 

We are fully accountable for our lives

 

* If we do good, it is to our own benefit; if we do wrong, it is to our own detriment (Holy Quran 17:7),
and we will be rewarded according to our deeds (Holy Quran 99: 7-8).

 

Deeds are of course dependent upon intentions
Of all the things in life it is sincere, good deeds that are most beneficial and in fact most valuable (Holy Quran 18:46)

The Holy Prophet said:
"Three things follow the deceased to his grave; his family, his wealth and his deeds; his family and wealth return, only his deeds remain with him."
     

Our accountability extends to all dimensions of our lives; whether it be ...
           Our responsibility towards those in our care

"Each one of you is a caretaker and each will be held responsible for those under his/her care."

 


Our responsibilities regarding ourselves
"Each person will be held accountable regarding how life was spent, how knowledge was utilized, how wealth was acquired and spent, and how the body was used or abused."

 

 

 

Let not materialism divert you from your purpose in life

 

* We are so caught up in the pursuits of the material until we reach the grave
      and seem to be fast asleep until awakened by the reality of death.

 

 

 

Part of a story

 

* Our lives are but footnotes on the page of history; each has his/her own life and each life is a unique story. Sometimes we enter into each other's lives and become a temporary or permanent part of each other's stories. All our lives are but part of a larger story.
      The fundamental question remains: How do we contribute to the larger story?
      Hazrat 'Ali advised:
      " Socialize with people in such a way that when you die, they mourn for you and when you live, they desire your company."

 

 

 

Do not wish for death

 

* Life could be meaningful, death is certain yet peaceful; it is the transition from life to death (dying) that is traumatic.
      Living a righteous life makes death much easier.
      For as the Holy Prophet said :
"the best of lives are those long ones filled with goodness."
None should wish for death.
"None should wish for death; if you are good it is possible that you may increase in goodness; and if you are sinful you may rectify your ways and improve yourself."
Rather pray
"O Allah (The One & Only God), make life for me a means for increased goodness and make death for me a prevention from doing any evil."

 

 

Narrated Abu Huraira (radi'Allahu anhu):
I heard Allah's Apostle (Sallallahu alaihi wasallam) saying,
"...none of you should wish for death,
for if he is a good doer,
he may increase his good deeds,
and if he is an evil doer,
he may repent to Allah."
( Sahih Bukhari ~ Book #70, Hadith #577)

 

Thursday 19 February 2015

Time is Life

 

 

 

 

Time is Life

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fear your Lord Who knows all that is hidden, and Sufficient is He, concerning the sins of His servants, as Acquainting and Seeing. Allaah (The One & Only God) says,

“O you who believe! Fear Allâh (by doing all that He has ordered and by abstaining from all that He has forbidden) as He should be feared. (Obey Him, be thankful to Him, and remember Him always), and die not except in a state of Islâm (as Muslims with complete submission to Allâh).”

(Holy Quran Aal ‘Imraan 3:102)

 

 

 

In this world, a person is between two dreaded things: his past life which he does not know what Allaah (The One God) is going to do with it, and the remaining part of his life which he does not know what Allaah is going to decide on it.

The wise one then makes proper use of his life for his own benefits, fills his worldly life with righteous deeds in preparation for his hereafter and judiciously uses his free time before a time comes when he will be busy. By Him in Whose Hand is my life, there is nothing one can do after the death has come, and there is nothing after the life of this world but Paradise or Hell.

 

Man’s conditions in this world change between health and illness, free time and busy time, toil and rest, seriousness and indolence.

The contemporary modernity that has turned man into a tool for the whole year, toiling tirelessly and frantically running after the materials of this world, far from spiritual nourishment like faith in One God, which is the source of rest for the body, heart and the soul.

 

In view of the reality of Islaam, its universality, its comprehensiveness and its balanced rules and just laws, it has affirmed the soul and the body’s right to have their share of rest and relaxation. The Messenger of Allaah said, “Surely, your body has a right upon you and your family has a right upon you. So give each their right.” (Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim)

The soul might become tired because of a long work. And the hearts also are tired like bodies. ‘Alee said, “Give the hearts an hour of rest every now and then, for if the heart is coerced into work it becomes blind.”

 

 

Nevertheless, this recreation should not be allowed to exceed the limits of what is permissible. It is authentically reported that the Messenger of Allah used to make jokes but he would not say anything but the truth. He engaged ‘Aaishah in a race, played with children and encouraged playing with one’s wife. He approved that the Abyssinians should play with their javelins. He would tell his companions, “Throw [arrows], for your father was an arrow-thrower.” These are some of the allowed recreation that do not consume all the time and that do not become one’s perpetual habit.

Making oneself happy and cheerful and refreshing oneself through permitted recreational activities are some of the things that Islaam considers in its law. A permitted recreational activity is the one that does not contradict the fundamentals and laws of Islaam. It should not be a forbidden thing or lead to a forbidden thing or block the way to an obligatory deed.

 

 

The time of vacation is a part of life, that time is life and that vacation does not mean abandonment of works & a person is not excused from abiding by God's obligations during vacations & holidays. For, man is required to use all his time in worshipping Allaah (The One God), which is the purpose for which he was created. Allaah (The One God) says,

“And I (Allaah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone).”

(Holy Quran Adh-Dhaariyaat 51:56)

 

 

 

However, this does not mean that one should spend all his time in prayer, fasting and acts of worship without any stop or rest. What is meant is that man should always remain in obedience to his Lord in all his situations. He should not abandon the obligation, for he is always commanded and prohibited and there is no time in his life in which he is free from God's regulations and free to do all that he likes. He should always abide by obligatory, supererogatory and permitted things. At least, he is obliged to shun all forbidden things however remote or relaxed he may be.

Holiday is not a time used on the margin of life. It is rather part of man’s life that is not owned by man but by Allaah (The One & Only God), Who created man so that he might use the time in the service of his Lord. That is why Allaah (The One God) made it forbidden that man should destroy his own life (commit suicide) or waste his time in any form (commit sins) and for any reason. Allaah (The One God) says,

“And do not kill yourselves (nor kill one another). Surely, Allaah is Most Merciful to you. And whoever commits that through aggression and injustice, We shall cast him into the Fire.”

(Holy Quran An-Nisaa 4:29-30)

 

 

 

This is in spite of the fact that the suicide perpetrator killed only himself. This underlines a human’s responsibility before his Creator, regarding his own life.

 

 

The Messenger of Allaah said, “The feet of the son of Adam shall not slip on the Day of Resurrection until he is asked of four things: His life as to how he spent it, his youth as how he used it, his knowledge as to what he did with it and his wealth as to where he got and how he spent it.” (At-Tirmidhee)

 

 

 

Travels are also part of life. And everyone shall be held accountable for how he spent the hours of his life. Based on this, we realize that the concept of time, according to Islaamic legislation, does not permit man to waste any part thereof. We also realize the greatness of time in that Allaah (The One God) swears with it and with some parts of it. He says,

“By Al-'Asr (the time). Verily, man is in loss. Except those who believe (in Islaamic Monotheism) and do righteous good deeds, and recommend one another to the truth (i.e. order one another to perform all kinds of good deeds (which Allaah has ordained), and abstain from all kinds of sins and evil deeds (which Allaah has forbidden), and recommend one another to patience.”

(Holy Quran Al-‘Asr 103:1-3)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Allaah (The One God) also swears by the night when it covers and the day when it appears and with the two kinds of creation: male and female. He also affirms that people’s efforts are diverse. He swears by the sun and its brightness, and by the day, night and the soul, affirming that whoever purifies his soul has succeeded and that whoever instils it with corruption has failed. All this, indicating that time is the essence of life.

The wise is the one who reflects over his affairs and realizes that movement of days means nearness of his death however long or short he is destined to live. He then takes the safe side, strives in his day and prepare for his morrow. The time is nothing but man’s life and his repeated breath. Time is precious. The part of it that is gone will never be retrieved.

 

 

We seriously need to be alert. Many are the heedless who have sold off their most precious possession –their time – for a pittance. The time goes and those who fail to catch up with it, their days and times will go in vain and they will incur great loss, and nothing will remain of the life but only its effects. So choose for yourself what will benefit you. That is why the prosperous ones will be told on the Day of Resurrection,

“Eat and drink at ease for that which you have sent on before you in days past!”

(Holy Quran Al-Haaqqah 69:24)

 

And the miserable ones will be told,

“That was because you had been exulting in the earth without any right (by worshipping others instead of Allaah and by committing crimes), and that you used to rejoice extremely (in your error). Enter the gates of Hell to abide therein: and (indeed) what an evil abode of the arrogant!”

(Holy Quran Ghaafir 40:75-76)

 

 

 

Man has two days in which he will regret his time that he has wasted and in which he will ask to be given some respite.

One: when he dies, that is when he will say,

“My Lord! If only You would give me respite for a little while (i.e. return to the worldly life), then I should give alms (i.e. Zakât) of my wealth, and be among the righteous.”

(Holy Quran Al-Munaafiqoon 63:10)

 

And the answer to this request will be:

“And Allaah grants respite to none when his appointed time (death) comes. And Allaah is All-Aware of what you do.”

(Holy Quran Al-Munaafiqoon 63:11)

 

 

Two: in the Hereafter when he enters Hell. Allaah (The One & Only God) says,

“Therein they will cry: "Our Lord! Bring us out, we shall do righteous good deeds, not (the evil deeds) that we used to do.”

And the reply will be:

"Did We not give you lives long enough, so that whosoever would receive admonition could receive it? And the warner came to you. So taste you (the evil of your deeds). For the Zâlimûn (polytheists and wrong-doers) there is no helper."

(Holy Quran Faatir 35:37)

 

 

 

Preserving time and making proper spending of one’s life need some resoluteness and strong will. As for indolence, it is a destructive and fatal disease. It reflects negatively on individuals and the society. It causes languor, poverty, moral and material backwardness and it leads to sins. Though work might be strenuous, indolence is undoubtedly destructive. If one sits down too much, he will fail to achieve his goals.

Tell those who are looking for places of fun to kill their time: ‘Do you think that life is just a pastime or do you think that death is just a fun?’

 

Tell those who spend their days between illusions and dreams: ‘If you are ignorant of how much of the time you waste, visit the graveyards, and seek from their inhabitants some time so that you might know that time is a precious thing that cannot be perpetually owned and a missed thing that can never be retrieved.’

Many are those who say: O Lord, send me back to the world that I may do righteous deeds that I had earlier abandoned.’ But they will be told: ‘No, life does not go back.’

 

 

Free time does not remain so for ever. It must be filled with either a good or a bad deed. He who does not occupy himself with good deed will have himself occupied with evil deed. The righteous predecessors disliked that a man should have nothing to do neither in matters of his religion or matters of his worldly life. If free time is combined with wealth and health, the danger then becomes greater if that free time is not used in good thing. The Messenger of Allaah said, “There are two blessings in which many people are deluded: health and free time.” (Al-Bukhaaree)

 

 

 

If someone has no goal to pursue, he will waste his time. The one who wanders about aimlessly bothers none but only himself. A man without a goal is like a captain-less ship tossed about by the waves. Days are records of deeds, so fill them with good deeds. Opportunities move like clouds, and languor is the habit of backward people. He who adopts the life of weakness will stumble. If procrastination and indolence are combined they generate loss. One of the righteous people cried when he was dying and when he was asked of the cause of his crying he said, “I am crying in regret of a day in which I did not fast and a night in which I did not pray.”

 

 

 

The reality is that whenever everyone nears his/her death he regrets every moment in which he had not done a good deed, regardless of whether the person was righteous or neglectful. Can’t we then catch up with what is left of our lives? You will find the earliest generations the best in terms of their keenness to preserve their time more than a stingy person would be keen to preserve his money. The harvest of their keenness was useful knowledge, righteous deeds, struggling in the way of Allaah (The One God), glory and a firm-rooted civilization of towering branches.

But when you look at the situation of the contemporary Muslims, you will be surprised to notice how they waste their lives and times in a manner that is foolish and idiotic thereby lagging behind after they had been the leaders.

 

 

If a man’s life is blessed he attains, within a short time, uncountable favours of Allaah (The One God). Many are those who are made to succeed in achieving a lot within a short time so much so that you think that their achievements are miracles, while the reality is that they are only blessed and made successful in investing their time in useful things. The best example is the Messenger of Allaah who brought the people out of darkness to the light and changed the face of human history within a short period of twenty-three years.

Another example is ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab who worked continuously through days and nights. He would say, “If I slept in the night I would waste my life and if I slept during the day I will waste the lives of my subjects. How can I then sleep between these two periods?”

 

 

Ibn ‘Aqeel said, “I cannot waste an hour of my life. Even if my tongue stops from reading and discussing matters of knowledge, and my eyes stops from browsing books, I make use of my thoughts at my time of rest and when I am lying down. When I get up I’ll already have in my mind what needs writing down.”  That is how he was able to write his book, al-Funoon, about which adh-Dhahabee said, “Nothing greater than it [in its field] has ever been authored.”

 

Ibn al-Qayyim said about his Shaykh, “I have seen wonders in the strength of Shaykh al-Islaam concerning his ways, his actions and his writings. In a single day, he would author what a copyist would copy for a whole week.”

Adh-Dhahabee said about him, “His writings reached about five hundred volumes.”

All this is in addition to his other activities like da’wah and jihaad.

The Messenger of Allaah said, “He who fears [sudden attack of the enemy] sets out in the night, and he who sets out in the night will arrive at the appropriate station. Behold, Allaah’s commodity [Paradise ] is precious and expensive! Behold, Allaah’s commodity [ Paradise ] is precious and expensive!” (At-Tirmidhee)

 

 

Since we have talked about time and the importance of investing it in useful things, here is a piece of advice for those who are gambling with their lives in the ambiguities of darkness that lead to unlawful shedding of the blood of people.

The reprovers have reproved and the sincere advisers have given their sincere advice. The scholars have explained the truth. Will you then cease?

Many of the lives that should have been used in constructing the useful society with the guidance of the scholars and upon the Sunnah of the Holy Prophet have been wasted. Let those who have committed mistakes repent, and those who are accused surrender themselves so that they can enjoy security. It is an act of bravery to admit mistakes and face the consequences.

Whatever Allaah (The One & Only God) has decreed shall come to pass, and to Him belongs the control of all affairs in the beginning and in the end. We seek refuge with Him against misleading trials.

"And if all the trees on the earth were pens and the sea (were ink wherewith to write), with seven seas behind it to add to its (supply), yet the Words of Allah would not be exhausted. Verily, Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise." [Holy Qur'an, Luqman (31):27]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

...This day have I perfected your religion for you, completed My favour upon you, and have chosen for you Islam as your religion... (Holy Quraan 5:3)

 

 

 

Have they not observed things that Allaah (The One God) has created: (how) their shadows incline to the right and to the left, making prostration unto Allaah (The One God), and they are lowly? And to Allaah (The One God) prostrate all that is in the heavens and all that is in the earth, of the moving (living) creatures and the angels, and they are not proud [i.e. they worship their Lord (Allaah) with humility]”[Holy Quran al-Nahl 16:48-49]

 

 

Allaah (The One & Only God), may He be glorified and exalted, has “a veil of light, and if He lifted it, the glory of His countenance would burn all of His creation as far as he could see.” (Reported by Muslim, no. 197)